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It dating a widowed father also impossible for me to resist thinking ahead — would they get on with my children? And do I really want any more children, considering how a baby could impact on my children's world, which has already been turned upside down? If the complexity of my situation put doubts in my own mind, no wonder it was ringing alarm bells among the women I was chatting with online. Fellow single parents were those I seemed to have most in common with, because divorce and separation involve a kind of grieving process.

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As any single parent will tell you, simply having the time to meet, and organising widowee babysitting schedules to coincide, is an achievement in. Play dates became a solution to this when I began dating a younger single mother. Organising babysitting was so difficult that we ended up meeting up in the park, avoiding any physical contact so that my children would think we were just friends.

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In particular, I didn't want my daughter to begin to fantasise that she'd found a maternal figure. It was definitely the right decision, because the fatheg didn't last.

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Nobody can ever replace my children's mum, but at present I'm trying to find the next best thing by building up platonic relationships with women that do not depend on romance gay WV cheating wives the mothers of my children's friends, and neighbours.

After a year or so of dating, I've met a lot of people, made friends and had short relationships, but I'm not sure I'm closer to finding the right person. It doesn't dating a widowed father difficult to find a girlfriend, but finding a stepmother for my children dating a widowed father certainly a tall order. Friends say I should stop looking so hard, that maybe she'll dating a widowed father appear when I least widoqed it.

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